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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Embracing the Cycle of Life and Death

I'm continually amazed by who's joining the experiment A YEAR TO LIVE. We have everyone from CEOs to hospice workers, yoga teachers, health practitioners, funeral directors, and retired couples, ranging in age from 30 - 70, but the person who's actually shocked me is Shilpa. 

Shilpa is a 36 year old professional woman living in Los Angeles. She's a wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and mother to an 18 month old son. What's so shocking about that, you ask? Well, the fact that a mom of an 18 month old is willing to consider living as if she only has a year to live is pretty surprising, but the shocking part is that Shilpa is 17 weeks pregnant as I write this. 

She is the only person who's going to be living as though she's dying while growing a child inside her, truly embracing the cycle of life and death.  If her  "diagnosis" of a Year to Live were true Shilpa would be leaving behind a 2.5 year old and a 6 month old baby at the end of next year. I'm so intrigued by her decision to do this, what inspired her and what the year will be like for her, that I've asked her to contribute to my blog throughout the year to share her unique experience. This is what she had to say when I asked her why she's joining this experiment:

So I am taking the Bcelebrated A Year to Live Challenge in 2010.   Am I crazy, especially since I have a 18 month olson and another baby arriving in June 2010?  The thought of having only one more year with my son and six months with my newborn is NERVE-RACKING and HEARTBREAKING.  

My husband asked me why I want to take on a challenge that is so emotionally trying and quite frankly difficult to face. Well, I am the type of person who is willing to take risks and this is an opportunity for me to learn more about me!  Over the course of the year,  I will get the chance to create my own bucket list, heal broken relationships, foster stronger bonds with my family and friends and of course explore new adventures.    

With me being pregnant, I can only only do so much, however, I look forward to explore the deeper meaning of my life and my actions.  I don't want to look back and say coulda, shoulda, woulda.


I hope you will all join us as we take this journey.  I am feeling very scared and nervous  but 2010 is my year to LIVE and  I believe it will be an enlightening experience.


As Lance Armstrong says "LIVE STRONG" ~  Shilpa


To find out more about  A YEAR TO LIVE email me. Debra@Bcelebrated.com



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6 Comments:

At December 16, 2009 12:12 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

wow...looks like this will be a a great and challenging milestone in your life, and a very powerful movement towards self awareness. I will support you and will love to be apart of your journey! --sandy

 
At December 16, 2009 12:35 PM , Anonymous Debra Joy said...

Sandy, thanks for your comment.

You'll be hearing more from Shilpa on this blog, as she journeys through her year. If you would like to "officially" be part of this social experiment, A Year To Live, please email me. Otherwise I'm sure Shilpa will be touched by your support in whatever way it comes.

 
At December 16, 2009 1:15 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow Shilpa! I am amazed and already inspired by your courage to face this challenge. I believe that your experience through this will be a great example of how to seize life and live it with purpose. All my support ~ hugs, Neesha

 
At December 16, 2009 1:27 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Shilps... this is making me tear up just as I read it. I think it is a revolutionary journey for you to take and I know that I currently do not have the selflessness to take that journey with you, but I will support you 100%. I've always looked at you as someone who lives life to its fullest and takes those chances that most would shy away from. What intrigues me about this though is to see how it changes your interpersonal interactions, your passions, your interests and your life choices.

 
At December 16, 2009 3:41 PM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

this will be very emotional challenge to you, i will support and will be there for you
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At December 17, 2009 4:10 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...

Shills-what better time than now to undertake this challenge? How many of us over the eons have died while giving birth? I honor your choice to explore life and death this year! Katherine

 

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