tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969Wed, 10 Mar 2010 16:35:39 +0000Ideas for living a more inspired life. A life that will Be Celebrated.http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/noreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)Blogger42125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-5174094458715668713Sat, 06 Mar 2010 20:04:00 +00002010-03-10T08:35:39.518-08:00HedonismA Year to LiveBcelebratedAccomplishmentsWe're 69 days into our year to live and so far nobody's blown all their cash, quit their job, left their marriage or lost their home. In fact, quite the opposite is true.When I tell people about A Year to Live some people immediately respond that they'd quit they're job, spend all their money, and blow their diet but after only a few minutes, every single person has changed their mind.You may http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/03/can-year-to-live-make-you-more.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-5457831892791589802Fri, 05 Mar 2010 16:32:00 +00002010-03-06T11:54:06.385-08:00A Year to LiveTsunamiHawaiiBrush with DeathAfter a wonderful trip to Hawaii I returned to life as I know it in Sunny Santa Monica and got back into the groove of my every day life. Saturday morning I woke from a dream about a Tsunami. Now I know that dreams of water signify emotions and a Tsunami would be a LOT of emotion. In the dream I could see the Tsunami coming but nobody else could. Everyone was going about their business. Since thehttp://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/03/why-you-want-to-have-brush-with-death.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-4030690748423416970Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:31:00 +00002010-03-04T15:52:37.409-08:00A Year to LiveBcelebratedHawaiiSwimming with DolphinsIntention, Acceptance, Surrender, GratitudeThese four words were the theme of my week in Hawaii. Immediately after deciding to experiment with a Year to Live I created a bucket list. It isn't long: 1) spend more time with the people I love and 2) swim in the wild with dolphins.Just after I wrote it, the chance to meet my girlfriend Nancy and her family on the big island of Hawaii presented itselfhttp://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/03/swimming-with-dolphins.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-8880360980178153407Wed, 10 Feb 2010 20:43:00 +00002010-02-10T12:47:09.000-08:00A Year to LiveBcelebratedShilpa<!--StartFragment--> A year to live by Shilpa The past few weeks, I have been busy with family, friends and work. I did have a chance to head out to Mammoth for some R&R. The snow conditions were remarkable and I was miserable to say the least that I was not able to ski. I love to ski, it is one of my few passions and can’t wait to get my kids on the slopes. However, this ski trip was http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/02/shilpas-year-to-live-week-six.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-4884804176191816534Thu, 04 Feb 2010 23:34:00 +00002010-02-04T15:46:50.831-08:00A Year to LiveEnd of Life.BcelebratedLife ReviewIt is said that when facing a death many people see their life flash before their eyes. I decided not to wait to the end. Rather than a flash it was more of a feature film played out on the big screen of my imagination. I relaxed and let my mind float from one memory to another. I was felt such deep appreciation for the wonderful people in my life, the chance to live in three great cities and onehttp://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/02/year-to-live-life-in-review.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-6468294517453603370Thu, 14 Jan 2010 23:33:00 +00002010-01-29T00:10:48.921-08:00Today I was interviewed about Bcelebrated by Michael Rosenwald of the Washington Post. He wanted to know how we started, what we offer, and why we created it. He asked really intelligent questions. The one I liked best was, "Are you creating a paradigm shift around dying, or is there already a shift happening". My answer was "BOTH". We live in a very different world from our grandparents and http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/01/today-i-was-interviewed-about.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-8181749696523731488Wed, 13 Jan 2010 23:15:00 +00002010-01-13T15:53:55.545-08:00BcelebratedContestWeight lossStacey GrieveWhy Are You WeightingWhen we developed Bcelebrated it was with the intention to inspire people to live life more fully as we helped them prepare for death. To do that we run contests, host social experiments to enliven participants, and provide expert advice on issues that hold people back from living life to the fullest.At this time of year thousands of people start drastic diets and intense exercise regimes to losehttp://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/01/when-we-developed-bcelebrated-it-was.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-2519314427809937777Fri, 08 Jan 2010 04:18:00 +00002010-01-08T09:11:59.169-08:00<!--StartFragment--> You may recall my amazement when Shilpa, a pregnant young mother, joined a year to live. I promised I would get her to blog about her experience and here is her first installment.A year to live -- Week 1 Well, it’s week one and I have started to think about my year to live. So many thoughts and emotions cross my mind. I am at a loss of what to say and how to begin.  In one http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/01/shilpas-year-to-live-week-one.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-605704304114898470Tue, 05 Jan 2010 18:47:00 +00002010-01-05T11:05:20.850-08:00A Year to LiveIntuitionfearAfter offering this experiment of A Year To Live to others I started feeling fearful about leading a group of people through this deeply personal process. As I sat with the fear I realized that I was holding onto an outdated image of leadership. One that didn't resonate with me. My intention with this experiment was initially to do it for myself, and then offer others the opportunity to live it http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/01/what-is-right-way-to-live.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-5364486748203874890Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:53:00 +00002010-01-04T10:57:42.858-08:00A Year to LivefeelingsBcelebratedloveFirst DayJanuary 1st the  A Year to Live experiment officially began. What a wonderful start to a year. Waking a little groggy from activities the night before, my husband and I did our usual morning walk along the ocean with our dog. The sky was bright, the air warm, and the ocean calm as a lone dolphin swam along the shore. None of this is uncommon, and I never take it for granted. I live with a deep http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2010/01/january-1st-a-year-to-live-experiment.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-760551552468228678Mon, 28 Dec 2009 01:11:00 +00002010-01-09T17:01:23.867-08:00A Year to LiveBasketballBcelebratedBrugh JoySeven years ago my husband stopped me while walking out of a bar to watch the last few seconds of a basketball game. While I didn't mind the delay, it seemed ridiculous to watch when the game had clearly been decided. (I knew NOTHING about basketball)There were less than 3 seconds on the clock. Lakers were down by two. Kobe got the ball and nailed a three pointer to win the game. From that momenthttp://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/12/living-life-like-its-basketball-game.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-9060847785891100188Tue, 22 Dec 2009 20:33:00 +00002009-12-22T13:09:20.720-08:00A Year to LivedeathBcelebratedfear“For death begins with life's first breath. And life begins at touch of death” ~ John OxenhamAs people have signed up to join our experiment of A Year To Live, many have expressed a fear of dying. Some people have inquired about the experiment without committing, telling me they fear that if they commit to this they might bring death upon themselves. Others have asked me to change the name of thehttp://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/12/is-fear-of-death-really-fear-of-life.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-750639731417352034Wed, 16 Dec 2009 18:25:00 +00002009-12-16T11:58:33.404-08:00A Year to LiveLife and DeathBcelebratedShilpaBirthI'm continually amazed by who's joining the experiment A YEAR TO LIVE. We have everyone from CEOs to hospice workers, yoga teachers, health practitioners, funeral directors, and retired couples, ranging in age from 30 - 70, but the person who's actually shocked me is Shilpa. Shilpa is a 36 year old professional woman living in Los Angeles. She's a wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and mother to an 18http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/12/embracing-cycle-of-life-and-death.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-4491783226274807107Tue, 08 Dec 2009 17:49:00 +00002009-12-08T18:22:23.851-08:00I got an email last week from a woman who had a real dilemma about the invitation to live next year as if she only has A YEAR TO LIVE.  She wrote that if she really had a year to live she'd want to visit all of her family across the country, followed by a round the world trip with her husband and dog. She would return home to visit all her friends and sit on back deck of her house enjoying a http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/12/honest-dilemma-about-year-to-live.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-5331578496229889288Mon, 30 Nov 2009 19:21:00 +00002009-11-30T18:51:26.186-08:00Donna BelkA Year to LiveRichard CohnBcelebratedCaroline FlaundersleadershipI thought I was through the fear. When I first considered living next year as if I only have A YEAR TO LIVE, it scared me. It excited and inspired me, no doubt, but it also scared me. Would I be brave enough to make the choices that I would really make if it were my last year. How would it effect those around me. Would people think I was crazy. Should I tell people about it or not.The more I http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/year-to-live-new-type-of-leadership.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-1773944045336265678Mon, 23 Nov 2009 20:22:00 +00002009-11-24T12:29:53.866-08:00BcelebratedDietStacey GrieveWhy Are You WeightingA few people have told me that A YEAR TO LIVE is too big a project. "Why a year?", "That's too long to commit", "People will drop out", "Try a day or a month" and other such comments have been voiced by concerned friends."Why a YEAR?" is a good question. Frankly it's the first thing that came to mind and it just felt right. (That's pretty much how I make all important decisions.) I really didn't http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/death-of-dieting.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-7985657152107788663Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:31:00 +00002009-11-19T15:57:08.335-08:00yogaA Year to LiveBcelebratedDr. Pam MaloneyIts' 42 days until A YEAR TO LIVE begins, but already I'm getting "reports from the field" about what is happening for some people.I had lunch with Pam Maloney who said that since agreeing to live next year as if it's her last she's been more present to her own experience. In yoga class she thought, "what if this was my last class ever?". She didn't push herself to do the best yoga EVER. She http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/forty-two-days-to-go-things-are-already.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-270081227809536463Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:19:00 +00002009-11-19T10:56:01.572-08:00A Year to LiveBcelebratedfearWhen Margot recommended that I invite others to join me in my experiment to live next year as if it's my last I thought it was a great idea. I invited my family first. Then some close friends. Then I sent out an email invite to a larger group and even posted that invite on Facebook and Twitter.The response has been beyond what I could have imagined. I've been getting a wide and wonderful variety http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/things-are-stirring-up-with-year-to.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-5654590101635323913Fri, 13 Nov 2009 18:37:00 +00002009-11-13T11:38:29.924-08:00BcelebratedHafizfamilyloveseparationMy grandmother died three years ago. Last night I had a dream about her. It wasn't really about her, but she was in it. There was nothing spectacular about the dream. She didn't have any profound message for me from the other side. My family and I were just having a visit with lots of food and lively conversation. In the dream we were all aware that grandma was dead and so having her with us washttp://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/love-knows-not-its-depths-until.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-8095767966116429619Thu, 12 Nov 2009 21:50:00 +00002009-11-12T14:27:19.142-08:00Since deciding, really deciding, to live next year as if it's my last, twelve people have already committed to doing this with me, and there's a buzz about what each of us might do differently.One thing we'll all be doing is creating a "bucket list". I hate that term so I hope we'll come up with a new one. Whatever we call it, we'll each create a list of the things we'd really like to do before http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/power-of-decision-making.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-2416328056965553207Wed, 11 Nov 2009 22:11:00 +00002009-12-17T15:41:08.098-08:00ExperimentA Year to LiveStephen LevineBcelebratedWhen the student is ready the teacher arrives. In my case the teacher has come in the form of a book. As soon as I decided to live next year as if I only have A YEAR TO LIVE, I came across a book by Stephen Levine. For over twenty years Stephen and his wife Ondrea have worked gracefully, courageously and creatively to help thousands of people approach their own death with peace, honesty, and an http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/when-student-is-ready.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-3732527855512613706Tue, 10 Nov 2009 21:20:00 +00002009-11-10T14:39:08.416-08:00I decided that I'm really going to do it. I'm going to live as if I'm going to die. I know that sounds ridiculous. We're all going to die, and we all know it. But isn't there a place inside you that denies you're ever going to die? Maybe that's because there's a part of us that isn't ever going to die. Maybe it's because we just don't want to think about the unknown. The unknown can be very http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/live-as-if-youre-going-to-die_10.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-233857410474031292Mon, 09 Nov 2009 21:31:00 +00002009-11-10T10:29:08.518-08:00Margot FranssendeathBcelebratedmeaningcelebrate lifeOne of the goals of Bcelebrated is to help people experience life as if they are going to die. Yes, the site enables people to document their life story, create private messages for people they love, prepare a notification system for the time of their death and make their last wishes known, but none of those are our "raison d'etre".Our hope is that as people write about their lives, create http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/live-as-if-youre-going-to-die.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-5737377867654535217Thu, 05 Nov 2009 18:23:00 +00002009-11-09T09:23:16.783-08:00life lessonsBcelebratedresilientgardenMy friend Nina and I share a garden. Nina's crops thrive under her constant care, daily observations and gentle watering. My portion survives my constant neglect. I have no good excuse for not attending to the garden. I have to walk through it to get to my front door, so distance is not a factor. Partly my neglect is due to drought. Living in Southern California I feel guilty every time I water http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/11/lessons-from-my-neglected-garden.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7907124907748944969.post-2291232847174576999Fri, 09 Oct 2009 18:16:00 +00002009-10-11T11:44:27.198-07:00hard workcreativitygoofing offBcelebratedFast companyworkaholicReading  an article in Fast Company, Hard Work's Overrated- Maybe Detrimental, I found myself releasing a sigh of self acceptance. As a recovering workaholic I mostly feel like a big fat underachiever when I read biz mags. I compare myself to the 20 and 30 somethings setting the world on fire, working 100 hour weeks and living off the buzz of creating something new, plus a few gallons of  Red http://www.bcelebrated.com/blog/2009/10/goofing-off-is-good-for-you-and-your.htmlnoreply@blogger.com (Bcelebrated)0